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Thou shalt not commit adultery.

(Exodus 20:14)

 

 EVERY GIRL, WANTS TO BE HAPPILY MARRIED.

 

Despite what 'wimmin' might say to the contrary, this is the ideal they all subscribe to.  Any female who claims otherwise has a specific reason for deviating from the norm and this reason is usually fairly transparent, but deep down they still would hope for the happily ever after scenario, which can only be achieved through marriage (to a MAN!).

 

Men are a little more complex - especially after ingesting huge quantities of female hormones through the water supply and in the meat they eat - but the average man wants the same thing that the woman wants...a happy marriage. 

 

The following was taken from

 

If you're susceptible to vice, find a wife. She'll save you from yourself—and improve your life—in a variety of ways. Notably, she'll . . .

1. Increase Your Pay
A Virginia Commonwealth University study found that married men earn 22 percent more than their similarly experienced but single colleagues.

2. Speed Up Your Next Promotion
Married men receive higher performance ratings and faster promotions than bachelors, a 2005 study of U.S. Navy officers reported.

3. Keep You Out of Trouble
According to a recent U.S. Department of Justice report, male victims of violent crime are nearly four times more likely to be single than married.

4. Satisfy You in Bed
In 2006, British researchers reviewed the sexual habits of men in 38 countries and found that in every country, married men have more sex.

5. Help You Beat Cancer
In a Norwegian study, divorced and never-married male cancer patients had 11 and 16 percent higher mortality rates, respectively, than married men.

6. Help You Live Longer
A UCLA study found that people in generally excellent health were 88 percent more likely to die over the 8-year study period if they were single.


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We all have this deep craving to be loved - the Bible says that we are made in the image of God and like our almighty Creator who wants our love and allegiance, we too desire to be loved.

 

Marriage is not a dying institution, but it is under heavy attack

 

It must be stressed however, that the Bible mentions the danger of being unequally yoked, which means marrying someone of a different faith, or no faith at all, and this is wise advice. 

 

The happiest marraiges are between true Christian men and women. 

 

The Dilemma

 

In our current times it is virtually impossible to avoid the daily bombardment of things of a sexual nature.  The media is full of stories of sexual escapades, secret rendezvous and extramarital affairs and by actively avoiding the subject (which Christians should do), will bring forth condemnation from others who consider the Christian values old-fashioned, out-dated and unnecessarily restrictive in today’s ‘have it all’ society.

 

God created sex and pronounced it ‘good’ in Eden, but this is one area in which satan has excelled himself.  By defiling and polluting the sexual act and by twisting and exploiting it, he has turned love into an urgent, illicit, casual and self-gratifying activity.  Love is now lust and lasting commitment is dead in the water.  “No-strings attached” relationships are now the preferred choice of many young people and marriage is all too frequently just a temporary arrangement between two people who ‘fancy’ each other. 

 

Sex is taught in schools to increasingly younger children, but there is no mention of love or marriage.  Young children are even taught how to masturbate and in one Spanish city, students were told that sex can be freely practised, even with animals!  (Read the whole story here, although in view of who is publishing this article, it could all be part of a hegelian* game being played out)

 

Although truly shocking as this might be, when compared to some of the other things this institution gets up to, it may just be more of the same.

 

Who are the sick people who promote these things?  Why is normality being made to feel like abnormality?  Love and marriage are definitely under attack.

 

Why is there subliminal advertising of a sexual nature emblazoned on countless products often targeted at the very young?  Disney has an appalling track record with this very underhand practice and one would think that their endorsement of witches and wizards, etc. along with other forbidden subjects would be enough for them, but obviously not.  (Parents would be wise to remember that God will ultimately hold them to blame for the corruption of their children)

 

It is said that men (and now women too, apparently) think of sex every…eight minutes (?) or less.  Is this surprising when it is the very intention of the media and advertising to encourage us to think about it continuously?  The devil, who is no doubt behind it all, has his finger in every dirty pie.

 

Sex on it’s own - in the absence of love - is hollow, meaningless and ultimately unsatisfying, but with stories plastered all over the media depicting sex as ‘earth-shatteringly wonderful’, a great many people, especially youngsters who have little or no experience in these things, feel they are missing out in some way.  This leads to ever increasingly bizarre behaviour in the bedroom (and out of it!)  in order to try and achieve sexual fulfilment. 

 

Sexually deviant behaviour is rife nowadays, but none of these abhorrent practises lead to satisfaction in the way that a sexual relationship within marriage between a man and a woman who love each other can. 

 

The way to discern the devil in anything is whether or not the subject can be discussed openly.  Something which has to be kept secret is not good.

 

Sex is a gift from God, a blessing to be enjoyed by a happily married man and woman.  It is yet another way in which our Creator shows His incredible love for us.

 

 

*  The commonly thought of hegelian dialectic in a nutshell:

  • The thesis is an intellectual proposition.
  • The antithesis is simply the negation of the thesis, a reaction to the proposition.
  • The synthesis solves the conflict between the thesis and antithesis by reconciling their common truths, and forming a new proposition.